You are welcome David. I am at a loss for words. Your struggle is overwhelming and your courage inspiring. You are writing your own story as you live this rewarding new chapter. I wish you every joy and happiness in each new day.
You might consider joining Gay Fathers International, a Face Book private support group. There you will meet others on the same journey. One of them is my friend Loren Olsen a psychiatrist in his late 70s who has published a book Finally Out you might enjoy. He has another coming soon.
If you send me a friend request on face book, I will accept it and send you an invitation to join the group, or you can just ask to join directly.