Thanks for reading Coby.
A friend has also pointed out that “straight” is in and of itself homophobic as essentially exclusionary. Those who claim to be “straight” fear the nonbinary reality of sexuality and cordon us of in response. Instead we should all just be allowed to be who we are without exclusionary pejorative labels. Yet it is difficult to communicate with out categories and labels. It’s what we do.
I too find domination scenarios arousing. Dominance and submission are inherent intertwined with sexuality. Many opposite sex attracted men crave being dominated too.
Thank you for your comments.